Measure of success?

At age 4, success is . . . Not peeing your pants.
At age 12, success is . . . Having friends.
At age 20, success is . . . Having sex.
At age 35, success is . . . Making money.
At age 60, success is . . . Having sex.
At age 70, success is . . . Having friends.
At age 80, success is . . . Not peeing your pants.